I also know this for a fact that it is better to be alone than be in a toxic relationship. Not a word all week well mostly but then rolls in Thursday. We have been together off and on for almost 4 years. Then a few hours later showed up where I work. Call me selfish, but I want it all, I want the hand holding, the nauseating displays of affection, the constant need to be near each other. Once in awhile I feel he is being fake but majority of the time I feel he is being sincere. In my mind he's already kissed every inch of my body.
We have to leave someone who says they love us more than anything and who in some situations claim they will leave. Now she seems to have become my judge and jury………. They think way too much baggage. Recently, he confessed to me that he's married and is not happy with his present relationship. And all the men should stay the hell of me! Now its so much more complicated for I gave birth to my lovers grandson. No, he is not aware of my relationship with big daddy.
I doubt your relationship will last that long. And you'll always wonder if he will cheat on you if he was able to cheat on her. I feel in my heart he is my soul mate. I respect myself way too much. And in a few others, emotional support and concern turn to lust.
Im ready to accept what my part. She is deployed, but now she is coming back. Long story short it lasted about 10 years. We were in different departments then Then he reached out and we talked in person. I saw messages on Messenger he was telling someone go and bring money for wife to pay my children school fees. I know, that in order for me to get out of this situation, I need to forgive myself for getting into it.
Well does anybody out there understand this relationship? Take care of yourself, build your self-esteem, keep your dignity and cut off all communication with this man. Since you know that you will not see him for 7 months and he is not willing to give you what you desire, I would say now is the perfect chance to make that clean break and move on from him. One year is about right when it comes to shifting from playing around to getting serious. Not only are you in love with this man but you have been with him for 3 years and he does not want a divorce? That's not the problem, my feelings are. Same thing happened to me about the text.
We went on chatting for a month before he came back to the country where I'm at. And then, the idea that he was married started to become more and more unbearable. Soon I feel in love with another single man. When he told me about his overnighting it with a woman he started dating, my heart felt like it stopped beating. When I am around I notice he is away from her, and he does not go near her.
But the way society tortures me makes it all worse. I am keeping my heart open, meaning, not shutting in, shutting down, but God it is painful. Think in yourself, think in your own life, and go ahead. Stop being where he expects you to be. Move on and if he comes along in the future and is available, fine.
With my relationship it's different. Logically I knew it was wrong. It breaks my heart to see so many women truly in love. Being divorced and knowing what men are and can be like, has made dating very complicated. Sooner or later he realizes that his kids and wife are everything for him and he did a mistake by proposing you.
Hi Gratitude, You are more than welcome for the update. But my departure and the unexpected amount if strength needed to leave started with this article. I love him do want to leave because of his situation but its hard to do. It is like a spritual connection and he says the same thing its like we really know each other. I've never dated a married man but now I find myself in love with one who seems to love me back.
But he is soon going to move too. Ofcourse he told me they were returned. So far he has cleaned my credit, pays all my bills, bought me a car, and now we are looking for a house in my name of course. Don't always believe what he tells you, for he may be just taking advantage of your weaknesses. But every time I do it it gets easier and I stay away longer. Remember girls, we are winners for taking charge of our lives. His guilt has become very great lately, for what he is doing to me, his family and his congregation.